Falling for an old friend after affirming

The story

when I used to be single, I was frustrated to get a girlfriend. that time I keep affirming for my self concepts, my affirmations are something like "my wife is the the most compatible with me" "I love my wife physically and mentally", etc. and then one day I metup with my old friend since it's kinda long time not meeting her. somehow I felt that she is really pretty, I never felt this way to her before and I just fall in love with her. long story short we are together and she is really compatible with me, the best person in my world for me 👌💕