Me and my sp are back together after over a year of no contact

The story

Always dreamed of being able to write a success story on here (I manifested this 🤣) after a little over a year of no contact him & I are finally back together and things are going great

I tried almost every technique out there, watched all these YouTubers, bought coaching and read a bunch of success stories but nothing seemed to work considering I kept contradicting myself and going back to the negative and obsessive thoughts about it

I tried for months and was getting very frustrated and I felt hopeless, nothing seemed to work and it was hurting me mentally and I was starting to feel burnt out. I was actually starting to get really anxious and my stomach was hurting over it

I had a day off work and decided that I was going to take the time to really focus on having what I wanted. I was tired of missing him and feeling hopeless so I decided that it was MINE and I kept repeating to myself that we were back together and I just repeated it and didn’t contradict it and I felt really good while I was doing it

I wasn’t worried about when it was going to get here because I just repeated to myself that we were back together and I didn’t think against it one time. I would repeat that to myself and go on with my day and still get stuff I needed in the 3D done

About 6 hours later the same day I was feeling really good repeating it to myself while doing some household chores and I got a notification on my phone and jokingly said “maybe it’s him” and IT WAS HIM I remember being in such shock and the mixed emotion I felt when it happened shock,joy and a little creeped out that I actually did that with my mind and it actually worked 🤣

I wasn’t worried or focused on when it would get here I just KNEW it was mine which is why I was so surprised when it happened so quickly

We didn’t have each other on any social app so we had no way of knowing what each other was up to but he sent me a friend request on Facebook and I accepted it and he reached out and messaged me and asked me how I’ve been and then we talked for a little bit and he apologized for the breakup and said he would like to start over with me

We went to dinner a few nights after he reached out to me and a few other dates after that and then he asked me to be official again and I said YESSS 💚🤪

I think what really clicked for me is when I stopped obsessing over how and when it would get here and stopped worrying about if I was doing it right. I also think that watching all these videos and not actually applying what they were telling me to do was setting me back BIG TIME

Once you decide that it’s yours and stick with your decision then nothing can mess it up, all you really need to do is stick with it and don’t go back to your old thoughts.

If you’re struggling just know that you can do it!!! You just gotta STICK WITH IT and don’t contradict it or worry about when it will get here💚💚everything works you just need to decide that it’s yours and persist with that thought