How I manifested my SP back and married him in 6 month

The story

I first came across manifestation about 2 years ago. After watching a few videos, I started manifesting a perfect partner. I would casually affirm a few minutes while walking outside everyday. Two weeks later, I actually met a man I considered absolutely perfect. Everything about him matched my ideal partner so well that even his lifestyle and hobbies, things I hadn’t even intentionally affirmed for, were exactly the version I liked. We got together quickly, and everything felt too good to be true.

But at that time, I didn’t truly understand what manifestation really was. Before him, I had been in a two-year relationship with an NPD, followed by another relationship that started intensely but ended in a sudden breakup. Those experiences left me with very poor self-concept. I felt he was far too good for me, so I interacted with him very cautiously. If I said one wrong thing, I would overthink it the entire day. Also, I had a pressure about marriage. In my country’s culture, I’m already considered quite old for marriage, and I had gone through two broken engagements that ended before marriage. I couldn’t relax and simply enjoy being in a relationship with him. Even though our relationship was extremely good at the time, and he truly loved me very much. I was constantly anxious and afraid he wouldn’t like me anymore, would leave me, or would suddenly break up with me.

A few months later, things happened exactly the way I had constantly feared and assumed. He suddenly asked to separate, without giving any reason. I tried a few times to reconcile, but he firmly said he would forget about me.

That was the old story. Here’s what I did after that.

Month 1. I started studying manifestation. I decided that I wanted to manifest him being fully committed to me and us getting married. At that time, Missy’s videos helped me a lot. I made up my mind to truly heal myself. I became aware of 20+ limiting beliefs I had while in relationships, such as believing people would easily give up on me, and I started working on healing them. At the same time, I affirmed constantly. As the intensity of my affirmations increased, more fear and despair would surface. I would break down emotionally every few days, but I learned to see it as purge. I wanted him so badly, and my desire to marry him became stronger than all the pain.

Month 2. I started experimenting with different manifestation methods. I did a lot of visualization and inner conversations. Every day while walking outside, I would imagine him beside me, and I constantly talked to him in my mind. All of this came very naturally to me and made me feel really good. I also tried doing SATs every night, but unfortunately that method didn’t suit me as it caused me severe insomnia. After struggling with insomnia for a month, I realized that getting proper rest was more important, so I eventually stopped using that method.

Month 3. Things started to shift. Some unexpected events happened, and by coincidence I got back in contact with him. Surprisingly, his attitude toward me was very nice, even slightly flirtatious at times. But whenever I mentioned getting back together, he was still very resistant. We stayed in contact on and off for a few weeks, and he gradually became hot and cold. I realized that I couldn’t stay in contact with him while also controlling my thoughts, because even the bit of coldness from him would make me extremely sad or even angry. Then I completely cut off contact with him.

After going no contact, I stayed very strict with MD and increased the frequency of affirmations. Every moment outside of handling my normal daily responsibilities, I was affirming. I refused to let negative thoughts take over. Occasionally I would still break down emotionally for a day or two, but I would continue persisting with my mental diet and affirmations. Two weeks later, we started dating again. During the first couple of days after reconnecting, he would still occasionally act cold, but that time I no longer let it affect me deeply. I simply kept persisting, and very soon, we fully got back together.

I’ve seen many people say that the most magical thing about manifestation is that once the manifestation successfully in 3D, everything else starts unfolding naturally. After we got back together, our relationship became even better than before. For example, before the breakup, the effort of initiating conversations or video calls was about 50/50 between us. But after that, he became incredibly attached to me. Every day, he constantly texted me and called me on video. I no longer needed to be the one chasing after him or initiating contact.

Just a few days after we got back together, he bought us rings. I was shocked to realize that the rings looked exactly like the ones I had visualized during my SATs. I had always thought my SATs were painful and unsuccessful, so that moment really surprised me.

I had also always dreamed of going on a vacation to France with him. Later, through his own planning and arrangements, we actually went on a trip to France together. While we were there, he bought me an engagement ring in France and proposed to me. Three months after we got back together, we got married.

The past few months have felt so beautiful. From getting back together, to moving in together, to getting engaged, and finally getting married — everything unfolded so smoothly that it felt unbelievable. The subconscious mind is truly incredible. It knows so clearly what I genuinely want. Even though I never planned every step or detailed path perfectly, everything that happened unfolded in exactly the way I would have loved.

I’m deeply grateful to myself back then, the one who was knocked down by pain again and again, yet kept getting back up. And I’m grateful to myself who even without fully believing in all of this, still never gave up. I truly wish everyone in this community gets what they desire. As long as you genuinely want it and persist, you will absolutely receive it.