I decided it was done, and SP came back changed

The story

Well guys, my success story is finally here. I’ve scrolled and scrolled this app reading everyone else’s so may as well share mine to spread some positivity.

Me and SP broke up and it was bad. Real bad. So bad that it seemed impossible. But that’s the thing, is anything really impossible when you are the creator of your entire trajectory?!

When we were in no contact I kept trying to manifest a text, a sign, something to tell me I was on the right path and all my efforts were for nothing, and as a result I got a whole bunch of nothing. Why? Because I was doing it out of desperation. Out of lack. I was doing the methods, the affirming, the scripting, the subliminals but deep down I didn’t believe. How is the universe going to provide something that I didn’t believe I deserved?!

Then I learned of self concept yada yada yada. I went down the deep dive research path, the TikTok’s, scrolling Reddit, the books, even looking for Etsy witches. I was so overwhelmed with all the info I got from different sources that I didn’t know what to believe. I felt defeated. Like it was never in my reach.

Then I learned in easy terms what the law of assumption is. To simply assume you have it and it’s COMPLETELY DONE. One day I decided I was DONE and it would be MINE, I couldn’t be bothered with one more ‘we are in a happy and healthy relationship affirmation’. I decided from that day on it’s the universes job to make it happen.

I helped of course, I worked on my subconscious thoughts, but not obsessively. Once I learned that the subconscious only receives data from the conscious - AND stored that data as facts, I decided I can control my subconscious as easy as pie. I just had to persuade my subconscious mind that I do deserve a loving happy relationship. I actually ended up persuading my subconscious that I’m the bomb, I’m more than deserving of love and happiness and that I’m open to receiving good things in my life. I did this by affirming good things about my self and who I identify as, twice a day in my 10 min drive to work and back and no more. And then BAM, guess who shows up wanting a relationship and furthermore displaying the changes I wanted them to show?! You know who.

So I guess what I’m saying to all you girls and boys is that no matter the 3D, no matter the conditions or the past. Or how much you feel like giving up and crying all night, or how much doubt you have…You can manifest what you want. Decide you have it, don’t obsess over doing everything you can possibly. Say nice things to your subconscious even when it feels silly and unfamiliar. Put yourself on that damn pedestal instead. Anyone can do this if I have done it.